10-Question Red Flag Scanner

The Red Flag Scanner 🚩

Is your partner toxic, or are you just overthinking? Take this 10-question deep psychological assessment to find out the truth.

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1. How do they react when you are near their phone or look at their screen?

They don't care; their phone is always unlocked. They get slightly uncomfortable or place it face down. They snatch it away, hide their password, or get angry.

2. How do major arguments between you two usually end?

We talk it out and find a healthy solution. We ignore the issue and give each other the silent treatment for days. Even when they are wrong, they twist the story until I apologize (Gaslighting).

3. How do they behave when you spend time with your friends or family?

They are happy for me and give me my space. They constantly text/call to check when I am coming back. They make me feel guilty, mock my loved ones, or try to isolate me.

4. What is their first reaction when you achieve something great (e.g., a promotion)?

They are genuinely happy and celebrate my success. They say "That's nice," but quickly change the subject. They point out flaws or immediately bring up their own bigger achievements.

5. What happens when they get really angry?

They ask for space to cool down but never disrespect me. They yell and bring up past mistakes. They use abusive words, break things, or act intimidating.

6. How well do they respect your boundaries?

If I say 'No', they understand and accept it immediately. They get a bit sulky but eventually accept it. They take my 'No' as an insult and pressure me until I give in.

7. What does your 'gut feeling' tell you about this relationship?

I feel completely safe, loved, and secure. I often feel confused and wonder if this is the right relationship. I constantly feel anxious, walking on eggshells just to keep them happy.

8. Do their words match their actions? (Future Faking)

Yes, they do exactly what they say. I can rely on them. They sometimes forget promises but try their best when reminded. They make grand promises but always have excuses when it's time to deliver.

9. How do they treat you in public versus behind closed doors?

They treat me with the same respect and love everywhere. They sometimes make me the butt of their jokes in front of friends. They act 'perfect' in public, but turn cold, mean, or scary when we are alone.

10. How do they talk about their past relationships (exes)?

They acknowledge the past and admit mistakes were made on both sides. They mostly blame their exes but occasionally admit their own flaws. All their exes were "crazy" or "toxic," and they always play the innocent victim.

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